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Cedric Parker

Profile Updated: December 14, 2019
Residing In:
Durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa
Run small business: Cornerstone Couriers
Candice, born 1971; grandson Matthew 2004
Katherine, born 1981; grandson James 2012; grandson Benjamin More…2014; granddaughter Hannah 2016
Michael, born 1984
Military Service:
Not balloted

I dropped out of school in standard 9, thinking I'd get a job with the Union Castle line as a cabin steward, see a bit of the world, and then come back and finish my schooling. This fantasy eventually led me to spending a number of years on the streets as a homeless petty thief.

In 1969 Christ intervened and helped me to pull myself together. I worked as a furniture salesman, then managed shoe stores, and then worked for Burlington Hosiery Mills as National Sales Manager.

After this I joined the Unilever group - looking after exports - and then became General Sales Manager at Lever Brothers. My colleagues with degrees were being posted overseas for further development - and so in an effort to get ahead I enrolled to do an MBA at UCT. We had to sell our house and cash my pension to fund this - as Unilever didn't approve of MBA's at that time. I was the first person without a matric to get an MBA at UCT.

I joined Appletiser as Export Manager after the MBA - spending a year in Melbourne with them before moving on. I subsequently worked for an engineering plastics company in Cape Town - helping them to internationalize their business. I left them in 1997 to work with a friend in the courier industry with Supaswift (now Fedex). After a contractual dispute I resigned and started Cornerstone Couriers in 2000. I now have 3 franchisees operating as Cornerstone Couriers in Cape Town, Durban and East London.

My life has been characterised by many highs and lows. I have been divorced twice (both times due to my misconduct), and have made some poor choices in life. The most important aspect of my life is my faith in Jesus Christ. It is His grace that has carried me through. I am now very happily married to Felicity who is an anaesthetist.

School Story:

I have many fond memories of my time at DHS. It was a difficult time for our family, and this impacted significantly on my decision to drop out in early 1965.

Denzil Andrews reminded me of an occasion when Wilfred Norisken asked class members to tell him where they were born (we were quite harsh in trying to take the Micky out of Wolfie). I piped up that I was born in the States - and when he responded with surprised interest I said "Yes - the Orange Free State".

On another occasion he asked the class for suggestions on objects that could be used for a game of charades. I said "How about a wolf? Or maybe even a little wolfie?" Amazing how puerile some of us were at that time!

Which teacher made the greatest impact on you in your time at DHS, and why do you say this?

Geoff Chater was a man who really loved history, and his passion for it was infectious. He was always kind and respectful to the boys in his class.

I believe that he is still alive and living in Durban North. He was an outstanding teacher.

Do you still see/talk to/hang out with any classmates? Who?

I've been in touch with Geoff Caruth for most of the time since I left DHS. He was incredibly supportive to me when I was on the streets.

Famous or interesting people you've met?

I've met Nelson Mandela when part of a Trade Mission to London. What an amazing man! My favourite memory of that trip was watching him jive with the Queen at a concert at the Royal Albert Hall.

How do you relax?

Felicity and I love music and the theatre. We took up bridge a few years ago - and we now play at clubs twice a week. We also play golf together every week.

We love the bush - and Felicity encouraged me to scuba dive and snow ski - which are really exciting. I'm a member of the worship team at our church - Life Christian Church in Ulverstone, Tasmania

I'm a passionate Sharks and Bok supporter, and we often go to watch them at Kings Park. We're hoping to get tickets for the World Cup final in the UK next year. I also love cricket - and we may get to Melbourne on the way to New Zealand in time for that World Cup final at the end of March 2015.

What are some of your favourite inspirational verses or quotes?

James 1 vs 2 - 3:
Helps me appreciate the benefit of adversity

Success is the progressive realisation of a worthy ideal (Earl Nightingale)

Failure can be the engine room of success - if you can own the mistakes you've made

There must be a better way! (Geddes Bain)

Romans 8 vs 28
Helps me appreciate God's love when challenged by life's travails

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DHS recently beat their arch rivals Maritzburg College. Well done! Watch the match here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vVobMjla_cw&app=desktop

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Posted on: Sep 04, 2019 at 1:56 PM

Hi Ced. I trust that you had a great birthday and the Tassie winter hasn't been too bad. We are off to Sydney/Brisbane for another 3 months in November. Regards. Stan

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Posted on: May 09, 2019 at 3:55 AM

P@ddy Farrell has sent me this snippet which reveals the magnificent achievements of our Classmate Dennis Gurwitz:
"This is an indication of the level of education we got so many years ago. One of our Form 6A 1966 Classmates, Dr. Dennis Gurwitz, has just been awarded the 2019 Award for Lifetime Achievement in Pediatric Respiratory Medicine Award from the Canadian Thoracic Society. The letter quotes his:- "Significant contribution to academic pediatric respirology in Canada, including the Canadian Thoracic Society or Canadian Cystic Fibrosis Foundation."
He has also given papers and seminars all over North America and Europe on his topic, and is probably one of the top guys in Pediatric Thoracic medicine in North America, if not the world. In addition to his private practice, he still does rounds on a weekly basis with Medical Interns at Toronto Sick Kids Hospital, which is probably one of the two top Children's hospitals in the world."

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Kevin Gazzard's further comments:

Rory was one of those people who always saw the funny side of situations. Those of us who know the Tony Hancock radio shows and especially "The Blood Donor" episode will appreciate this.

We were (trying) to surf at North Beach and a sidewash wave lifted the board into Rory’s eyebrow, splitting it open. With blood pouring out of his wound, Rory quipped, “Blood Mr Hancock, blood”. He then passed out.

Rory was a pacifist. I never saw him lose his temper or raise his voice in anger.  After school he joined the S.A. P. to avoid conscription. The thought of warfare was an anathema to him. This was the way out.

Unfortunately, Rory’s life was not an easy one. He was not able to settle and his last years were difficult, but if anyone met with him, there was always a laugh and some humorous anecdote.

Rory was one of a kind.

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I only met Rory through our 50th reunion in 2016. He made a lasting impression on me. His gentle caring manner endeared him to most who knew him. He will certainly be missed.

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Posted on: Mar 10, 2019 at 10:35 AM

This article by Wayne Duvenage appeared recently in the Daily Maverick. It makes a good case to support SA - in spite of the turmoil we've experienced:
My short answer to those who are anxious about our future is to dwell less on what is wrong and to open your eyes to what is really happening. The more we are able to determine and see the positive signs of sustainable change, the better we will be at generating positive impetus for growth and prosperity by those who choose to #Stay&Fix South Africa.

Tough times & tough decisions

There is no denying that South Africa is suffering from the corruption upheaval of the Zuma era that pushed us into massive economic hardship and to the brink of collapse. Furthermore, corruption, incompetence and maladministration by many in positions of authority in national and local government still exist and are a significant challenge to our future prosperity. We have our work cut out for us in this department.

Sadly, however, human nature in stressful times tends to allow negativity to take hold. It clouds our ability to see the signs of positive change by new leadership committed to turning things around. We forget that change doesn’t happen overnight and that when turning a massive ship around towards a favourable destination, the extent of the change becomes evident when we look back to see the wake of our revival.

However, the extent of change is not always easy to gauge in the early days as the pace of change is never quick enough to satisfy our natural desire and hungry human nature for a big and fast-paced change, especially after a prolonged period of damaging leadership. And when that doesn’t happen it gives rise to growing frustration.

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Throw in a few curve-balls such as Eskom load shedding and you get massive spikes of negativity to catalyse thoughts and group discussions of giving up and emigrating. This is where we are right now.

Looking back to move forward

Consider for a moment where we stand today compared to 15 months ago when Jacob Zuma was still in power. The Zuma cabal was confident of winning at the ANC’s five-year elective conference in December 2017, yet they didn’t.

We need to understand that had Team Zuma won that battle, Tom Moyane would still be in charge at South African Revenue Service (SARS), Shaun Abrahams at the National Prosecuting Authority (NPA), Lynne Brown and the destructive forces would continue to plunder away at Eskom, along with a host of other connected cohorts wreaking havoc in many positions of authority. The last remaining “positive” ratings agency, Moodys, would most likely have downgraded us to junk status and the international and local investment fallout would have been in full swing.

Well, that didn’t happen and very quickly we became upbeat as Cyril Ramaphosa took the reins of national leadership from Jacob Zuma. Our appetite for change and corrective action ran high and placed us in a state of mind that expected more to have happened by now.

We became blind to the complexity and enormity of the turnaround job that lay ahead and the massive “Zuma-era hangover”, with which CR and his new team have to contend, not to mention the internal ruling party factionalism and external election rallying. Throw into the mix constant rating agencies’ scrutiny and a society baying for more, and it is safe to say that Ramaphosa occupies the toughest job any South Africa president has faced.

Despite all these pressures, encouraging developments within the vital institutions that ensure national stability (which were systemically destabilised by Zuma and his cronies) are now adding to the momentum of change that we seek. Think about the recent revelations at the various commissions of inquiry, the introduction of new capacity within the NPA, at SARS and the Hawks and of the many (often not published) new proclamations resulting from the good work undertaken by the Special Investigations Unit (SIU).

Let’s not forget the significant Cabinet changes undertaken soon after Ramaphosa became president. Remember too the amendment he introduced to the terms of the State Capture Commission that allowed for evidence presented therein to be used in future charges.

Then there are the banks announcing the closure of business accounts of African Global Operations (formerly Bosasa), just as they did against the Gupta companies, adding another effective mechanism to tackling money laundering and corruption in South Africa. One cannot emphasise enough how important these decisions and developments have been in our journey of recovery.

While the recent arrest of Bosasa and past Correctional Services bosses and others has been music to our ears, people ask:

“But why hasn’t the President had Zuma, Koko, Zwane, Motsoeneng, Seleke, Molefe and others arrested yet?”

Well, for starters, the president may not command arrests. That process resides within the NPA and the Police, aided by the Asset Forfeiture Unit, SIU, Hawks and SARS. Encouragingly, these same institutions are currently being restored, fortified and de-Zumafied to enable the rule of law to start working again.

Let us also be mindful that some cases are just more complex than others. Some need more “ducks in a row” before the trigger is pulled, while others have the external pressures of political chess and factionalism that take longer to break down in order to achieve desired outcomes.

High on the juice of positive thinking?

Some may believe that any positive view of the present dire situation could be a case of getting high on the mantra of head-in-the-clouds thinking, or being blinded by Ramaphoria or even being a government or political party lackey that seeks to sugar-coat and downplay the enormity of our problems. And society has a lot of them.

While driving a positive narrative does help to increase the energy in any system, effective civil intervention requires that we remain pragmatic and apolitical, giving credence to developments that generate momentum, consistency and sustainable positive change, while constructively criticising, challenging and seeking to amend government’s inefficiencies and ill-doing.

Civil society upbeat

The focus is on Shamila Batohi and her beefed-up team to re-energise the rule of law — and in fact, this is already underway. Just as the water flows in a dry riverbed after good rains, it starts at first as a trickle. The challenge, however, is to ensure it doesn’t turn into a raging torrent that is out of control and doing more damage than good.

What we seek is a longer, controlled flow of energy that is contained, less destructive and more effective, as the authorities round up and charge the culprits that set our nation back by a decade or more.

As civil society, we must not relent in applying pressure for the government to fix our broken state entities and to introduce the competence and visionary leadership that is able to take tough decisions.

Neither must we decelerate civil society’s opposition to irrational and failed policies such as e-tolls, the dubious Xolobeni mining and N2 toll road decisions, or the forthcoming flawed Aarto process and other matters that questions Government’s legitimacy.

These issues, along with gross electricity tariff hikes, questionable taxation policies, bloated and inefficient government departments and failing municipalities, will keep civil activism dynamic and prevalent for years to come.

While I maintain that we should all commit to challenging that which is wrong, or at least support those organisations which do so, let’s also acknowledge significant positive developments when these are evident.

Without being blind to the stormy waters and uncomfortable swells that lie ahead, now is the time to promote a #Stay&Fix attitude that will ensure hands on deck to give us a better chance of survival and greater prosperity.

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